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Happy Holidays! 

All the staff at Stardock and Wincustomize hope that your holidays are filled with joy, love, and happiness.  It's been a great year, and we're looking forward to all the exciting things that 2019 will bring.

There are so many awesome holiday customization options on WC, that it's hard to choose which to spotlight!  So, I chose just a sampling of what is out there to start you out on the right path to having a colorful and festive desktop.  Please share your own favorites in the comments!

 

Gingerbread House (WindowBlinds) by DaveBax




Winter Wonderland (Dream) AzDude

 

Here Comes Santa (Dream) by joyton

 

Christmas 2011 (WindowBlinds) by LightStar

 

Christmas (Start Button) by lily732

 

Christmas Dragon (Wallpaper) by Vlad

 

Dreidel (DesktopX Widget) by Littleboy

 

Christmas Holidays Gold (WindowBlinds) by adni18

 

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

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WinOptimizer is currently available for only $9.99, so get your copy today!  Get WinOptimizer

 

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What I do to keep healthy

Mar 1, 2013 4:18 PM by Discussion: Life, the Universe and Everything

My previous article was a bit of a glimpse into what it is like to live day by day with Lupus.  It was just a slice of my daily life, but I didn't talk about things that I do to try and help myself stay healthy and active.

There is a balance that has to be found in life.  With me, my biggest struggle is finding a way to manage pain enough to stay active, but to not take so many medications that I'm stressing my liver.  You can't live without your liver, and since mine's not that great, I concentrate on making sure I do what I can to help it out.

There are 4 main categories that I will throw things in for this article: 1) Diet, 2) Activity, 3) Medication, and 4) Daily routine.

#1- Diet.  Don't underestimate food.  If you eat like crap, your body has to deal with that crap.  I have spent the last 14 years of my life trying to figure out what foods trigger flares, rashes, and fatigue.  Here is some of what I've learned about myself:

Meat- it's what's rotting in your colon.  It produces ammonia during digestion, which then causes your liver to have to convert it so that your kidneys can rid it from your system.  This taxes your liver and kidneys.  You also then get the cholesterol to deal with, and animal protein to digest, which is much harder on your body.  In the past 5 years, I have gotten my cholesterol into the "normal" range, and have increased my liver functions by not eating meat.  I was a vegetarian longer than that, but I was also making other changes, so I'm not sure what affected what before the past 5 years.

Veggies- Eat them.  Get at least 6 servings of fruits and veggies a day.  They have nutrients that your body needs to heal itself.

Dairy- Dairy can be evil.  I am allergic to it (gives me hives).  I would suggest using it in moderation.  You don't need dairy to get calcium and Vitamin D- there are plenty of other foods that will provide that, assuming you aren't just eating junk.

Eating out- Don't do it often, and don't eat fast food.  There is too much salt and fat in restaurant food.  There is no sense in getting a flare over food.

Soda- It's a can of delicious chemicals that you should really moderate.  It doesn't help your body at all, so only have it as a treat.  

 

#2- Activity.  Keep moving, even if it hurts.  When I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis 27 years ago, the thought then was "if it hurts, don't do it".  Luckily, a doctor told me that I would be in a wheelchair by 21.  Why was that lucky?  Because, being the young shit-head that I was, I thought "well, if I'm going to be in a wheelchair anyway, why should I care if I'm hurting my joints?"  Luckily, I kept active and ended up staying mobile.  If you don't keep moving, you will end up in bed feeling sorry for yourself, and soon you will decide one day to just stay in bed and let somebody else clean up your poo.  Don't do that- get your ass up and move.

 

#3- Medication.  Now, this is a tricky one.  Everyone senses pain differently, so not all pain meds work the same, and not everyone needs the same treatments.

This is what I take on a daily basis:
1) Armour Thyroid - I've had my whole thyroid removed due to 32+ cysts and nodules
2) Hydrochlorothyazide - BP medicine.  Most people with Lupus have high blood pressure
3) Effexor XR- This is for pain management, though it has helped my OCD a bit.  I rather be on Cymbalta, but my insurance won't pay for it, and I don't want to pay $200 a month.

Now and then I get a flare that won't go away and I go on Plaquenil for a couple months.  I could avoid some flares by staying on it, but I just don't want to put my liver through that.

Pain Management:
1) Good Old Naproxen
2) Tramadol for when Naproxen just isn't enough
3) Vicodin for when Tramadol doesn't cut it
4) Flexeril for when my muscle spasm for no good reason

Then I have a very interesting one- vaporized nicotine.  Now, this is not "smoking", it's nicotine in a suspension that is used for other medical uses, such as asthma inhalers.  Nicotine is not cancer causing, and after many tests, it has actually lowered my bp.  Seems like an odd treatment?  Well, they have been testing nicotine post-op for quite some time.  There are studies going on, like the one I'm in, that shows that it is very effective at pain management.  Why? It is believed that Nicotine raises the level of dopamine in the brain.  The brain converts dopamine into norepinephrine.  Now, if you look at Cymbalta, which is approved for pain management, one of its main features is that is raises levels of norepinephrine.  If anyone is interested in further information of how I use Nicotine and what equipment I use, let me know and I'll write its own article.

 

#4- Daily routine.  This seems like something that isn't a factor in keeping healthy, but it is.  It's important to go to bed and get up at the same time each day.  Now, I have insomnia and sleep apnea, so I don't always sleep much, but keeping yourself in a routine is a good thing.

I have also identified skin irritants, such as perfumes, anything that's not cotton, many lotions, soaps, etc. that I avoid.  I make sure that I start my day with a shower, check for any body parts that have a new rash or other afflictions, and then apply topical treatment to the rashes.  Keeping clean and keeping the rashes under control is important since Lupus effects the skin heavily, and your skin can really throw you for a loop if it's not healthy.  I also use very little make-up and try and be as gentle on my skin as possible.

Eat at about the same times everyday.  Eat smaller meals and more of them.   With Lupus, as mentioned, your liver is at risk.  Smaller, frequent meals are easier on your digestive system, are less taxing on your liver, and help maintain glucose levels.

Have downtime.  It's easy to get so busy that you get too stressed and cause a flare.  Make sure that you take at least 30 minutes each night to just calm down before going to bed.  I find sitting in a quiet room petting dogs is the best for calming me down.  It lets my brain settle, and it's always great to snuggle with wiener dogs.  If I am really stressed, I will opt for a 20 minute session of meditation.  I see it as a "reset" for my brain.  Lupus also effects brain chemicals, so it's easy to get a bit on the bat shit crazy side.  Prevent that my giving your brain a rest.

 

Well, I probably have more to say, but I've already written a book.  If there is anything that anyone would like more detail on, or has questions about, let me know! 

 

 

 

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A fairly normal week

Feb 26, 2013 6:17 PM by Discussion: Life, the Universe and Everything

Wow, has it really been almost 3 years since I wrote anything on here?  

As a little background, I have had Rheumatoid Arthritis since I was 12.  Later in life, I was diagnosed with Lupus with secondary fibromyalgia.  I'm pretty much an auto-immune nightmare, but I still try to function as much as normal.

Anyway, a while ago (right before Christmas), I posted a "week of lupus" on FaceBook, and a few people said that I should blog it somewhere so that others could see it.  So, here it is, a week of living with Lupus:

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For the fun of it, I am going to post each day for the next week about what it's like having Lupus. I don't think many people understand how random it can be. So, this is today: (day one): Awakened at 2am with a strange sensation in the hand that was under my face. Soon to realize that it was filled with blood from a wicked nose bleed. Half hour later, back to bed. Woke up to back pain, hip pain and chilblains on my toes (look it up if you don't know what it is) Probably from walking on the cold floor while dealing with nose bleed. Got moving- add stiff neck to the list. Any of it slow me down? Nope- nothing new for having lupus. Sleep total for the night = 6 hours (pretty good!)

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 2: couldn't fall asleep. Another nosebleed at 4am. Fell asleep at 5am, then woke up at 8. Weird rash for no reason. dizzy feeling + the sensation of boiling water running down my thighs + my typical joint pain. Sound weird? Not to me. Sigh. Total sleep last night: 3 hours. (Typical)

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 3: So, this is my third day of posting about the typical life of somebody who has Lupus. To be clear: this is just normal for me. This isn't a "flare", this is just typical life that most people never see because it's usually not visible. 

Ok, so I actually fell asleep at midnight last night...but that lasted an hour. Was too tired and cold to get out of bed. Slept a little off and on. Tried to imagine Dorothy looking at the animals sleeping at Sasha Farm. Started thinking of little Louie the pot bellied pig and how fast his tail wags...that didn't help me fall asleep, but it made me smile. Got up at 6:20, felt like I was running a fever....temp was 97.1. WTF? Not a fever, so off to the shower. At this point, I realize that the new shoes that I wore yesterday took chunks out of my heels. My pain tolerance is stupid and I didn't even know..until soap ran over them. Ouch. Out of the shower- I'm purple from being cold, have hives and feel hot. Lupus, go home, you're drunk. OK, hands and feet were hot from shower, and now cold- they turn almost black (thank you Raynaud's). It's a good thing my husband doesn't shower with me- he'd probably think I was undead and stab me in the head.

Blow dry hair- chunk falls out. Looks like it had a lot of grey hair in it, so I have mixed emotions over it falling out. Start getting dressed and realized that my right knee doesn't want to bend. Go through PT routine to get it working, get dressed and head downstairs.

Typical pain for the day is there (joints, back, hips, some muscle groups). Knee not happy. Burning sensation in thighs still there (better get the liver checked out) and stabbing pain in back (freakin' spongy kidney yelling at me). Off to work! 

Arrive at work to super awesome assistant with Starbucks (thanks Emily Ellis Fraley!) Which is good since I only had about 3 - 4 hours of broken sleep last night.

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 4: If you haven't been reading these, these are just posts of what my normal life is like. Read 1-3 before these if you really want to, LOL.

Body temp was low all night, so I was cold all night. Jeff wasn't cold, and he's always cold, so it was just me. Fell asleep at about 2am. Woke up at 3:36 sweating like crazy. Nice. Got cooled down, got back to sleep as Jeff's alarm was going off at 5am. Stayed awake until he got out of bed at 5:30. Fell asleep at 6am and slept through my 6:25 alarm. Crap. Body temp: 97.8 - at least it's higher than yesterday. What causes that? Probably thyroid related. Even though I had it removed, it's decided to grow chunks back and screw up my hormones again. Sweet!

As I was putting on my all cotton clothes, it reminded me of one of the things about Lupus that drives me nuts- skin allergies. I am allergic to most perfumes, cloth unless it's at least 95% cotton, acrylic (which means that getting my nails done can end up in swollen fingers if they don't keep them away from my skin), a lot of hair products, most lotions, and various things that nobody would even think of. Oh, and I can only wear gold earrings/nose ring or my body will swell up and reject it (learned that the hard way with a piercing- thought it was infected only to find out it was a reaction to the surgical steel). The kicker is in the summer- I burn and get sun rash, but I've yet to find a sunscreen that I don't have a reaction to that is worse than a burn/sun rash.

Pain is at a fairly normal level today. The only exception is that I woke up with a stiff neck. That on its own isn't bad, but I have a nerve issue in my neck which causes partial blindness in my left eye when I get a stiff neck. If I was smart (which I'm not) I would have brought my heat pack with me to work. Oh well, gives me an excuse to sit with dogs and watch TV when I get home, right? Sure....that's after I go to the store, make dinner, and do whatever else needs to be done. Then maybe 1/2 hour on the couch before bed. LOL

Sleep total for the night: Maybe 3 hours?

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 5: Wow, 5 days already? Doesn't feel like anymore than 10.

Since we were up at the Pied Piper working on it all last weekend, we didn't get our tree up like we normally would, so we put it up last night. In hindsight, that was stupid. I mean, what was I thinking moving at all at night? Jeff did put the tree skirt on for me, and at one point looked like he was passed out under the tree. So, I started signing John Denver's classic "please daddy don't get drunk this Christmas". That had nothing to with Lupus, but I just thought I'd share.

So, went to bed about 11:30, fell asleep at a little after midnight and didn't wake up until Jeff's alarm went off at 5am. Didn't sleep after that, but it was nice not waking up. Tried to get out of bed at 6:15. Hips decided that putting up the tree was too much for them and that they no longer wanted to move. Bastards.

Finally got out of bed at 6:40. Stumbled through the shower, knocked my nose ring out when washing my face, couldn't bend over to pick it up. Left it there until later. Started getting ready- realized that I had what looked like zits all over my face. It seemed like a good idea to squeeze the one that was right between my eyes (zit bindi)......that was not a good idea. Not a zit at all, and all it did was cause blood to run down my face. Looked like I got shot. Thought of taking a picture, then remembered that I was still naked. Obviously a new rash, so I slapped make-up on and moved on. Went to put deodorant on (I can't use antiperspirant, BTW, as I end up with plaque like rashes from it) and realize that the rash on my face is also under my arms. Great, no deodorant today. Sorry co-workers.

At this point I think I am ready, but then I remember the nose ring that is in the tub and not in my nose. I stumble around like an 80 year old on meth and finally get a hold of that little jerk. Instantly realize that my grip strength is missing today and drop it down the drain. Fuuuuuuuuuu.......glad I have a couple spares. Sigh.

Off to work I go. Get on the expressway and feel something warm on my face. Crap...another nosebleed. Stuff tissue in my nose and keep driving. Start getting funny looks from people passing me. Decide that the only thing to do is crank up the Christmas music and start singing so that I look like a complete tard when people drive by. Funny looks turn into people laughing, so at least somebody had a funny story about their commute.

Pain level is higher today. Back and hips are very much not happy with me. Liver and kidney seem to be happier today, though, so that is good. Total sleep last night = ~5 hours. Pretty good!

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 6: Hey, we're getting close to a week already.

Had a pretty chilled out night. Volunteered at Sasha Farm, went home, ate dinner, did some paperwork, then sat on the couch and watched SNL Christmas until I was told to go to bed.

Actually fell asleep and stayed asleep for 4 hours. Woke up, then fell asleep for another hour. Seems like after that I'd wake up feeling good. Nope. Woke up to my entire body hurting for no good reason. And, by "hurt", I mean that it was hard to even move.

So, off to the shower (if you haven't noticed, that's a habit of mine). Figured the warm water would help me out. Take a nice deep breath and realize my lungs feel like somebody started a campfire in them. To be honest, it's been a few months since I was smacked around with Pleurisy. I've yet to have the bacterial version, so I'll just wait it out. It's weird the things that people with auto-immune diseases tend to get. I have a feeling that a lot of people get Pleurisy, but it never manifests to a degree that they view it as anything but part of a cold. However, with Lupus, nothing is ever simple. Your body over reacts and tries to kill off everything- including your own cells.

So, today I have general pain everywhere and my lungs feel like they are being exfoliated with a cheese grater. Not the best day I have had, but definitely not the worst. At least I didn't get another nose bleed today, so there's that.

Total sleep: about 5 hours (pretty good!)

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A week of what it's like to have Lupus-day 7: We've finally made it a week!

I did a whole lot of nothing last night. Was just tired and worn out feeling. Dogs appreciated me sitting on the couch with them. The only thing I actually got done was ordering a crate liner for the dog's crate. I also complained that I ordered a leg lamp and Amazon lost it, so I had to order it from the Christmas Story Museum store, which ended up costing less. However, I don't have it and I'm angry. Why? No good reason at all.

Went to bed at 10:30. Fell asleep at about 12. Woke up after having a really weird dream. Really shouldn't have watched Fargo last night. Felt sorry that I sent Brad (my BIL) through a wood chipper. Fell back asleep and pretty much stayed asleep other than the part where my snoring disturbed the dogs and they started growling at me. I must have sounded like a badger or something....

Woke up with a headache behind my right eye (it's still there). It's the kind that you get when your sinuses are really stuffed up. The problem is that mine aren't. I hate headaches more than anything. It's the one pain that I have yet to figure out how to deal with. My body is all like "hey! your knee is swollen and inflamed, I'll just ignore it" but with headaches, it's all like "Code red! There's a headache! All pain on deck! We're taking her down for the count!" I hate headaches. And, this one has no reason for being there. I can only assume that it is blood gathering up there so that it can let loose on my way home. I think I better prepare for the great nosebleed of 2012.....or I'll just let it run all over my face and take pictures of people's reactions as they drive by. One of the two.

Still tired and achy this morning. Not really sure what my general pain level is today because the ONLY pain my body will pay attention to right now is this freakin' headache. Even a nice warm shower didn't help it. (My day just isn't right without starting off with a shower). I thought about drilling a hole into my head, but I only own drill bits for wood and metal, none for skull. Sigh. I need to work on that. I'll add that to my Christmas wish list, right up there with a new hip.

Total sleep last night: About 4-5 hours. Not bad. 

Hope you enjoyed my week of living with Lupus, I know I didn't! Hehe

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It just doesn't make sense

Sep 30, 2008 1:52 PM by Discussion: Pets & Nature

I am completely an utterly heartbroken.  Last night, I came home from work, had a normal evening, ate dinner, fed the dogs, put the dogs in their crates and we headed off to Sasha Farm (a farm animal sanctuary that we volunteer at).  Same thing we do every Monday.  Nothing different.  All the dogs were their normal selves.  All ate well, all acted normal, all barked and ran up the stairs when we yelled "bedtime"..well, except Roscoe- we carry him because his hind legs are bad.  But normal as normal can be.

We come home after a couple hours.  Dogs barking when we come in.  My husband goes upstairs to let the dogs out.  I hear the crate open, dogs run out, but...something is off.  Then I heard him yell something that I just couldn't process: "I think Holly is dead!"

I ran up the stairs. Holly was dead.  And we have no idea why.  She looked like she just died in her sleep.  She was laying in the spot that she always sleeps in.  She was on her left side, which she either sleeps like that or on her back.  But she was dead.  I was instantly crushed.

Holly was only 4 (almost 5) years old.  She was my beloved Welsh Corgi.  A few years ago (May of 2006) she was diagnosed with having an extra vein that was diverting blood around her liver.  So, we spent $5,000 to get her surgery.  If you have read my blog for a long time, you may remember this picture:


After her surgery, she seemed extremely healthy.  Blood tests showed her liver functions were normal, and nothing seemed wrong.  The only thing that we can make any sense of is that she had something like a heart attack or a blood clot that was linked to whatever caused the liver problem. 

She seemed so healthy, though.  Even that day, nothing was odd about her. She was just being her typical, crazy self.

It was dark, cold and raining when we buried her last night.  I sat there staring at the hole dug next to by best bud, Quincey, who died from cushings 3 years ago, and I thought: "You weren't the dog that was supposed to be buried here.  You're way too young".

Oddly enough, cold days were her favorite.  Just last night, during dinner, my husband said: "Holly is going to want to stay out there until Spring".  Unfortunately, she'll always be out there, now.  And, I'm completely heartbroken.

RIP my dear Holly.  You were an awesome dog, and we will always miss you.

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What IS THAT????

May 28, 2008 6:19 PM by Discussion: Internet

*note* I know that this is not "Internet" related, but I wanted it to cross post with WC....that, and I'm too lazy to post on both sites.

I've been at Stardock for a billion years.  With that, I have been able to score a windowed office.  This particular office overlooks the pond at the back of the building.

I have seen some weird things out there, like groundhogs climbing trees, birds that look like aliens (see: https://forums.joeuser.com/156307) and stuff like that. 

So, the other day, I was wandering out of my office to go get coffee (which is across the hall- the coffee maker deserves its own article because it's just too cool) and saw this out of the corner of my eye:

My brain thought: Damn, that is one freakin' huge spider!.  Then my brain thought: WHAT THE HELL IS THAT???!!!!

I stood staring at it in horror until it moved.  Here's a link to a closer look:

http://files.joeuser.com/angie/whatISit.jpg

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Nov 15, 2006 12:35 PM by Discussion: WinCustomize News

There is an exciting opportunity open for the right person at Stardock.  We are in search of a talented person to do QA and testing of our products.  This would include everything from Object Desktop to Games to Stardock Design projects.

This position is physically at Stardock, so please don't apply unless you are willing to work at the Stardock building, which is in Plymouth, Michigan.

The candidate should be somebody who uses our products, understands a wide range of technology, and somebody who has used many versions of Windows and different hardware configurations.

Though we prefer somebody with a degree, we will accept resumes from candidates who are extremely familiar with our products and have a desire to help us improve them.

Job Description:
Applicants will make a difference by helping identify general-usage issues before releases, as well as using their technical abilities to help developers identify problems during application design and development. This full-time position has a high degree of upward mobility.  The position is at this location- no remote work will be considered.

Job Responsibilities:
• Test planning.
• Test execution.
• Defect tracking.
• Coordination of testing resources.
• Working with the development staff to validate fixes, and reporting.
 
Job Requirements:
• Candidate must be capable of working independently and in groups.
• Candidate must have demonstrably clear written and oral communication skills as well as analytical skills.
• Must be capable of multitasking.

If you are interested in this position, please send a resume and cover letter (which should include salary requirements) to: jobs@stardock.com

Please use the title: QA/testing position as seen on Stardock pages

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Nov 10, 2005 4:58 PM by Discussion: Humor

Just a senseless joke that I received via email:

A student comes to a young professor's office hours.
She glances down the hall, closes his door, kneels pleadingly. "I would do anything to pass this exam", she says as she leans closer to him, flips back her hair, gazes meaningfully into his eyes.
"I mean"... she whispers, ..."I would do...anything".
He returns her gaze. "Anything"?
"Anything!"
His voice softens. "Anything"?
"Absolutely anything".
His voice turns to a whisper. "Would you............study"?

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Oct 14, 2005 5:18 PM by Discussion: Pets & Nature

Today I had to say goodbye to a dear friend of 10 years, Quincey.  He had Cushings disease, that destroyed his muscle and body over the last year.  We did everything that we could do for him, including importing drugs from the UK, but some things you just can't fix.  I just got back from a business trip, and took yesterday off to get back on track.  Unfortunately, it seems as if he waited for my return then just gave up.  Within 36 hours, he quit eating, quit drinking, and started vomiting blood.  We took him to the vet, but the best we could do for him was give him a comfortable death.

This had to be the hardest thing I have had to do.  I have had other dogs die, but not *my* dogs as an adult.  He was just such a good dog, and such a good friend.  It was so hard to let him go.

Quincey was my only companion during some real life changes.  He was with me in my first apartment, and kept me company when I had so few friends in the new town I lived in.  He was always happy to see me, and was always there when I was down. He was a gift to me from my now husband.  And, even though we had 4 dogs, he was always "my" dog.

The other 3 dogs are lost.  They don't understand what happened.  And, I can't blame them- I'm a bit lost myself.  I am used to his bellow and his begging for food.  I'm used to helping him up the stairs and picking him up on the couch.  But, not anymore.

I will miss you dear friend.  May you rest in peace.

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Multiplicity Manual

Aug 30, 2005 7:17 PM by Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

Stardock has a contract job open for a technical writer.  The work would consist of writing a very straight forward user manual for Multiplicity Pro.  This Manual will be about 16 printed pages, and will need to be written for the "common user" to understand.  The work is currently only for the manual, but there may be more work available in the future, which will be done on a per project basis.

If anyone is interested in this position, please send a technical writing sample to: jobs@stardock.com

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